Valentine’s Day Would You Rather Questions
Valentine’s Day would you rather questions are quick two-choice picks with a sweet twist, like “Would you rather get a valentine from a puppy or a kitten?” Below you’ll find 60 clean ones for kids, classrooms and families, from silly cupid questions to kindness and friendship picks. They’re great for a class party warm-up, a family dinner or a morning meeting on February 12.
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When is Valentine’s Day 2027?
Valentine’s Day 2027 falls on a Sunday. So most classrooms will celebrate on Friday, February 12. If you’re a teacher, that’s the day to have these ready on the board.
How to play Valentine’s would you rather
- Read a question out loud. Everyone picks an answer.
- Move to a side. In a classroom, kids walk to the left wall for the first choice and the right wall for the second. It gets wiggles out, too.
- Ask “why?” Pick one or two kids from each side to explain. That’s where the giggles happen.
- Keep it quick. 10 to 15 questions is perfect for a party warm-up.
For more party ideas to pair with this, see the best Valentine’s Day party games. Running it with a class? These classroom tips help keep a whole room on track.
60 Valentine would you rather questions
Sweet and silly Valentine questions
- Would you rather get a valentine from a puppy or a kitten?
- Would you rather have a giant heart-shaped balloon or a tiny heart-shaped pet rock?
- Would you rather wear pink every day for a week or red every day for a week?
- Would you rather have a cupid who delivers your homework or a cupid who cleans your room?
- Would you rather get 100 tiny valentines or one giant valentine?
- Would you rather have hearts that glow on your shoes or hearts that sparkle in your hair?
- Would you rather be a candy heart with a funny message or a candy heart with a kind message?
- Would you rather have a teddy bear that talks or a teddy bear that dances?
- Would you rather send a valentine by paper airplane or by carrier pigeon?
- Would you rather have a pet that only says nice things or a pet that tells jokes?
- Would you rather live in a house made of paper hearts or a house made of pink clouds?
- Would you rather have cupid’s wings for a day or cupid’s bow and arrow for a day?
Valentine’s Day would you rather for students
- Would you rather make valentines for your whole class or decorate the class valentine box?
- Would you rather have a Valentine’s party in the morning or the afternoon?
- Would you rather write a kind note to your teacher or to the school principal?
- Would you rather decorate cookies at the class party or make friendship bracelets?
- Would you rather do a Valentine’s craft with glitter or with stickers?
- Would you rather read a Valentine’s story out loud or act one out?
- Would you rather have a friendship week at school or a kindness week?
- Would you rather get a valentine with a riddle or a valentine with a drawing?
- Would you rather have your valentine box shaped like a robot or like a castle?
- Would you rather help the teacher set up the party or help clean up after?
- Would you rather sing a Valentine song with the class or do a Valentine dance with the class?
- Would you rather give everyone in class a compliment or get a compliment from everyone?
Valentines would you rather for kids at home
- Would you rather have heart-shaped pancakes or heart-shaped pizza?
- Would you rather make a valentine for Grandma or for your pet?
- Would you rather watch a Valentine’s movie with your family or play a Valentine’s board game?
- Would you rather find a love note in your lunchbox or under your pillow?
- Would you rather give your family a hug-a-thon or a high-five-a-thon?
- Would you rather have pink milk or red juice at breakfast?
- Would you rather build a blanket fort with hearts on it or a snow fort with hearts on it?
- Would you rather make a card that pops up or a card that plays music?
- Would you rather have a Valentine’s scavenger hunt inside or outside?
- Would you rather spend Valentine’s Day with your best friend or with your family?
- Would you rather have a kindness jar in your kitchen or a compliment board on your door?
- Would you rather bake treats for your neighbors or draw pictures for them?
Friendship and kindness questions
- Would you rather have one best friend forever or ten good friends?
- Would you rather be known as the kindest kid in school or the funniest?
- Would you rather help a friend with homework or help a friend with a chore?
- Would you rather get a surprise hug or a surprise high five?
- Would you rather do a secret kind thing every day or one big kind thing every month?
- Would you rather have a friend who’s great at sharing or a friend who’s great at listening?
- Would you rather make a new friend today or reconnect with an old friend?
- Would you rather write a thank-you note or give a thank-you drawing?
- Would you rather have a friendship bracelet in every color or one perfect bracelet?
- Would you rather tell your friend a joke to cheer them up or sing them a song?
- Would you rather share your snack with a friend or share your toys with a friend?
- Would you rather have a talking teddy bear best friend or a talking puppy best friend?
Valentine’s Day would you rather for the whole family
- Would you rather have a Valentine’s breakfast in bed or a Valentine’s picnic in the living room?
- Would you rather get a handmade valentine or a store-bought valentine?
- Would you rather celebrate Valentine’s Day in the snow or at the beach?
- Would you rather give flowers or get flowers?
- Would you rather have a red rose or a pink tulip?
- Would you rather make a family photo heart collage or a family memory jar?
- Would you rather have Valentine’s Day last a week or happen twice a year?
- Would you rather write a poem for your mom or for your dad?
- Would you rather eat chocolate-covered strawberries or chocolate-covered pretzels?
- Would you rather have a family dance party or a family karaoke night?
- Would you rather get a love note from your grandparents or a phone call from them?
- Would you rather decorate your whole house with hearts or just your bedroom door?
Which questions fit which group?
| Group | Best sections | Tip |
|---|---|---|
| Preschool and kindergarten | Sweet and silly, kids at home | Show two pictures and have kids point |
| Elementary class | For students, friendship and kindness | Use the walk-to-a-side version |
| Middle school | Friendship and kindness, family | Let them write their own for the last round |
| Family dinner | Whole family, kids at home | Everyone answers, grown-ups included |
Valentine’s Day would you rather for kids: tips that help
Here’s the thing about little kids: they love answering, but they need it simple. Read both choices slowly, and use your hands to show “this one or this one”. If a question has a word they might not know, swap it for one they do.
For older students, try a twist. After everyone picks, ask the group to guess which side will win before you count. Or let each student write one new Valentine question on a paper heart and draw from the pile.
Want more clean questions for kids? The kids’ list has lots of everyday ones, and the clean questions page works for every age.
A note on keeping it sweet
Valentine’s Day in a classroom is about friendship and kindness, not crushes. These questions skip “who do you like?” on purpose, so nobody feels put on the spot. If you’re playing at home with family, the same idea helps little ones and grandparents feel included. When you’re ready for more, tap the button on the card above to play all 60 questions in the full game and see how everyone voted.
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What are good Valentine's Day would you rather questions for kids?
Simple, sweet picks work best, like "Would you rather get a valentine from a puppy or a kitten?" or "Would you rather have heart-shaped pancakes or heart-shaped pizza?"
How do you play Valentine would you rather in a classroom?
Read a question, then have students walk to one side of the room for each answer. Ask a couple of kids from each side why they picked it, then move on.
Are these Valentine's would you rather questions OK for students?
Yes. They're about friendship, kindness, crafts and silly fun, with no crush questions, so everyone can join in comfortably.
When is Valentine's Day 2027?
Valentine's Day 2027 is on a Sunday, so most schools will hold their Valentine's parties on Friday, February 12.
How many would you rather questions do I need for a class party?
About 10 to 15 is perfect for a warm-up. Save the rest for a morning meeting or a quick brain break later in the week.
